Events Timeline
February 2024
May 2024
Digital hacking of my devices began, including losing complete access to my Facebook account for nearly 2 months. Several log-ins were traced to a person in Greensboro, NC, where my ex's family own significant properties.
I became a fully licensed LCSW and transitioned into private practice.
After over a year of focusing on myself and my daughters, I started dating again. And Sam found out.
.I took my daughters on our first vacation, and we were unnecessarily contacted by local police.
May 2023
May 2024
I moved out of Sam's house and into a 2-bedroom apartment in Wilmington, NC. We shortly after began sharing 50-50 joint custody.
Sam and I finally settled child support ($1,000 per month) between lawyers. Yes, I received no child support from him for a year.
August 2023
Sam and I settled a 50-50 joint custody agreement.
My ex's father dies, setting up the escalation of abuse post-separation.
My ex set his house on fire, accidentally caused by an old, improperly stored vape pen in the garage, per his report. Miraculously, his vehicle's dash cam caught it all...
March 2024
I experienced targeted hacking at my workplace related to direct deposit. Hacking of my devices continued.
Michael Hofstetler (man I dated), through manipulation and subtle coercion, pressured me into signing a “BDSM ownership” contract—a one-year agreement binding me to him.